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Love Machine

Sex Guides Posted By: Admin - On: November 12, 2008
Let's say you're a great talker. Sexy and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Great kisser. Unpredictable and you're a 'rare to find'. Your love is one of a kind, silly, fun and sweet. You have your own unique sexiness and you're the most caring person every single girl wants to meet. And last but not the least, you're amazing in bed.

Did I say AMAZING IN BED???

Frankly, if you're doubting yourself then you have a big problem. Whether you-re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, I can-t say. This is up to you to find out, while I-m just doing some explaining for your convenience. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she-s faking it. And even experienced men can-t always tell if the woman-s faking it or not. Bottom line- you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.

And that-s even before we take into account slip ups and -that time- when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man-s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady-s behavior, even if he shouldn-t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there-s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.

Okay then, put all the blame to stress. Stress is one of the great -sex killers- nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it-s best to ruin sex around the world. I-m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier.

Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small, since going out with the guys is fun and, hey, we-re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the -evenings out- turn into -nights out-. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.

Remember that once you-ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. If you are keen to get sex right then you need Lovecentria-. Lovecentria- contains the very best in video, written and interactive sexual advice to ensure that bedroom faux pas are a thing of the past. For more information please visit www.lovecentria.com and surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy and be the world's greatest love machine.

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Immature...

Sex Guides Posted By: Admin - On: October 27, 2008
by Peter James

Most women think men are immature. For the most part, they are right. Us grown men still like to play sports, video games and other child like things. This is because of how we think. We aren't always as serious as women pretend to be. Men enjoy competition. We go through this our whole life. It starts when we are little kids and we throw baseballs with our dad. We grow up playing sports, then we grow old and we get into the job market and we have to find a mate. All of those requires you to compete. So, all of our lives, we end up doing this. Women don't understand this.
This is also why they tend not to succeed in business like men do. They lack that drive to succeed, to compete. It is like a game. How many women CEOs do you see compared to men? There is a big difference in numbers.

On the other hand, there are some really immature men. Every time I watch Animal Planet, the men on the programs make me think of adolescent boys. They all act like if they seen a pair of tits they would have a heart attack. Maybe it has something to do with animals, hell I don't know. I can't stand to watch more than ten minutes because of this.

When a man acts immature, it doesn't mean they are lazy or a retard. Sometimes people can have emotional problems. Sometimes being abused as a child can have an effect on people. There is so much bad shit that happens in life, I am surprised if anyone can walk away sane from it.

If you have problems that stemmed from the past, I wouldn't beat yourself over the head about it. Instead, I would go to a therapist and talk to them about it. They will help you deal and cope with everything that has happened. If you don't have the money, try either getting government assistance or try to find a place that makes you pay on what they call a 'sliding scale'. This means, they will base how much you have to pay on how much money you make. Chances are it will be much cheaper and you will be able to afford it. If you have no money at all, you can go and talk to a minister for free. Most of the time they will be happy to talk to you and give you good advice.

Even though we might feel immature or down, there is no reason to go around pouting 24/7. We don't like when our women do this, so we should keep in mind they don't like it when we do it. If you are doing this, you need some help. You are trying to get pity to cover up your problems. Drug addicts use drugs to cover up problems, you use pity.

You shouldn't let mood swings get the best of you. This can happen if you have a mental illness. You get tired when your old lady has mood swings before her period and bitches you out all day long. Chances are, she hates yours as well.

There is no need to go on with life feeling this way. If you are just an immature guy because it is your nature, don't worry about it. On the other hand, if you have problems, I suggest you get help.

If you find yourself getting depressed often or thinking of killing yourself, its time to get help. There is no need to run from it. The doctor won't kill you when you go in. There is no surgeries, needles, or any of that stuff. They can't even force you to take meds or come back for a second visit. Simply put, they can't force you to do anything you don't want to do.

If you are having panic attacks they can effect your sex life. If you have panic attacks while having sex, it can be very difficult to maintain an erection. Hell, it is almost impossible to maintain a reasonable life when you have panic attacks.

If you find yourself unable to leave your house or without the desire to leave, you need to seek some help. There is no reason why you should put yourself through the horror of this living hell. Get on your feet and make the first step. It is important for you to understand that only you can help you.

If you feel like some of the things I described because you are being abused by your woman, you need to leave right away. Most people don't believe that a woman can abuse a man, but it happens every day. You don't deserve to be abused, you have done nothing wrong. You need to put your foot down and get the hell out. Let her ruin someone else's life.

Money should never be a problem when it comes to getting the support you need. If it is, try to find local support groups in your area. Talking to someone is better than no one. You can go to places online and find support groups and even ones you can talk to people online. You can talk to people and they will never know who you are. Most if not all of the online support groups are free. This means you won't have to pay any money to use them. You can go to places like yahoogroups.com and find support groups. It is a good place to start looking.

Friend, if you need it go get some help. There is no reason not to. You deserve to live a good healthy life. Don't kid yourself, you do deserve it.

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Kama Sutra

Sex Guides Posted By: Admin - On: October 11, 2008
The Kama Sutra, or Aphorisms on Love, is probably the best known of all love manuals. Written in Sanskrit by a man named Vatsyayana, the Kama Sutra comes from the words Kama meaning desire and Sutra meaning rules.

Adapted from a long history of rich oral tradition, the Kama Sutra was translated by an intrepid adventurer, the Englishman Sir Richard Burton, for the benefit of the English-speaking world.

The Kama Sutra contains about one thousand two hundred and fifty slokas or verses discussing the spiritual aspects of sexuality and presenting many sexual positions and techniques for enhancing enjoyment of sex. It includes detailed techniques in the art of seduction, courting, gift giving, kissing, preparation and use of aphrodisiacs, and the moral and ethical attitudes during marriage.

The ancient Hindus believed that life had three purposes- religious piety (Dharma), material success (Artha), and sexual pleasure (Kama). All three were equal, and the erotic was celebrated as the seat of earthly beauty.

The Kama Sutra is not to be used merely as an instrument for satisfying our desires- but also for obtaining the mastery over our senses and attaining higher levels of consciousness.

Kama Sutra Positions

Here are some of Kama Sutra positions, most of which are named after animals and nature, mirroring man-s relationship with the natural world. Note that the sexual organ of the man is called lingam, while the woman-s is called yoni.

The Missionary Position. It is the most common sexual position, universally appreciated by both novices and experts. The woman lies on her back and the man puts himself between her legs to penetrate her. A few cushions placed under the woman-s buttocks change the penetration angle and allow a deeper penetration.

The Bee. The woman sits on the lingam of her partner with her feet drawn up, himself seated with his legs outstretched. She can then revolve her hips so that her partner-s lingam circles deep within her yoni. He arches his body or lifts her buttocks or thighs to accompany her movements.

The Monkey. The man lies on his back, with his legs straight up. The woman sits on top of his thighs, using his feet as backrest. He then lifts her with his feet, to start up and down stimulation. The woman adds to this stimulation by undulating her pelvis in a lateral or circular motion.

The Lotus. The woman lies on her back as the man, sitting facing her, fastens her ankles around his neck. She grips her toes as she presents her well-opened yoni to her partner.

The Deer. The woman goes on all fours and straightens her back. The man kneels down and penetrates her from behind.

The Tortoise. The woman lays on top of the man with her legs open allowing his partner-s lingam slide inside her yoni. Once in place, they both straighten their legs rubbing their bodies laterally and horizontally against each other.

The Cat. The woman lies on her stomach while the man lifts her ankles to make love. Both partners then rock slowly from side to side.

The Elephant. The woman lies down so that the man can enter her from behind. She can leave her legs open for easier penetration, or tighten her thighs to firmly squeeze her partner-s lingam in her yoni.

The Swing. The man lies down on his back while the woman turns her back on him and crouches down on his lingam with her legs on either side of her partner-s hips.

The Dog. A classic position when the woman is on all fours. The man, kneeling, grips her waist and enters her from behind.

The Wheel. The man and woman starts in the classic Missionary Position. The man rotates slowly on his partner using his lingam as the axis of rotation until he has come back to his initial position.

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The Day After

Sex Guides Posted By: Admin - On: September 25, 2008
by Peter James

You are awake, but you haven't opened your eyes yet. You don't remember much about last night, but you feel hung over. You reach over for a cigarette and barely open your eyes long enough to see where they are. You take a long deep puff and your eyes begin to open. All you know is that you feel like total shit. You take a few puffs off of your cigarette and put it in the ashtray. You lay in bed trying to remember what the hell happened last night. You vaguely remember going out with the buddies and doing ten shots of whiskey and pouring beers down your throat all night long.

Your brain starts to recognize that you are awake and need to start the day. You take a few more puffs off of your cigarette and you realize there is something moving next to you. Holy shit! There is a nude stranger next to you with your blankets wrapped around her. She is starting to wake up after she smells the scent of your cigarette smoke.

What do to? You don't want to act like you don't remember having sex with her, even though you don't. You don't know this woman from a box of rocks. Don't panic, keep your cool.

She might not remember anything from last night. Be gentle with her and talk in a soft voice, she might be hung over too. Run your fingers through her hair and act happy. If she sees that you are happy, she might think you enjoyed the sex.

After she is awake try to make small talk. Ask her what she would like for breakfast and that sort of thing. Tell her how beautiful her eyes look in the morning. Tell her they are full of life and they sparkle like the stars at night.

If she brings up the sex from last night, tell her that it was good. Don't go telling her a wild story that isn't true, because she might remember what happened. Tell her that you can't believe how beautiful she was and how much you enjoyed her company.

This can be an important time. If she already put out, she might put out again. If you aren't too hung over, test out the waters and see if she would like to have sex again. Run your fingers through her hair and tell her she has a nice smile. You can also try giving her a massage. If she starts to get relaxed try brushing your hand against her breasts. Then go in a little more and try touching her breasts. If she acts uncomfortable, stop doing it.

If on the other hand, she seems open to the idea of you touching her breasts, continue. Start up with foreplay like you normally would. Hey, what do you have to loose? You might be able to double your pleasure.

During this time you can hint around to asking her what her name is. Tell her that it slips your tongue while you lick her nipples. Try to make it funny if you can. Humor is a great way to break the ice.

You have to look at this like it is a strange first date. You don't know anything that happened last night other than you probably got lucky. Don't pretend to act like you know her life story when you don't. Act a little dopey if you think you can get away with it.

After you do a little foreplay pull away your blankets and let her get a good glimpse of your penis. Watch how she reacts. If she seems to be interested, there is your green light. All you need to do is allow things to happen.

I would also during this point allow her to touch you. Do this to make sure that she really does want to have sex with you. The last thing you want to do is end up raping a woman. She might feel scared because she is having a stranger do something to her. Always play on the safe side.

If you can't get any sex, then I would try to make the transition from getting out of bed to her leaving as smooth as possible. Ask her if she wants anything to eat or a cup of coffee. Don't rush her out of the house, this will take away any chance you have of getting laid by her again a second time. Most of the time though, there won't be a second time. But, you always need to be playing one step ahead.

Tell her that you will leave the room while she gets dressed if she feels uncomfortable. This will help speed things up if she does. Tell her that she can take a shower or freshen up if she would like.

Don't pretend that now you are a married couple. Don't ask her to make you breakfast and break wind in bed and laugh. Chances are she was either really drunk last night too, or she was really horny.

This can be a uneasy situation. If you find yourself in this type of situation keep these things in mind. It will help you make it more easy.

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Better Oral Sex

Sex Guides Posted By: Admin - On: September 09, 2008
by Michael Messner

We like to think that a woman is born knowing how to give great oral sex. We think that they must take notes while watching porn movies. This isn't always the case. In this article we will give you suggestions on how to improve her oral sex skills. Using ice is a great thing. You would think that something cold on your penis would make it go limp, but it does the opposite of this. It will make the experience more enjoyable. Sometimes women don't use their hands enough. They think that it is all in the mouth. Tell her to rub and squeeze your testicles while she goes down on you. Your testicles do not get touched very often so when they are - WOW! The feeling is amazing!!!

Tell her to grip your penis like a baseball bat and stroke along in rhythm as she goes down on you. This will drive you crazy! Nothing feels better than a little tongue magic. Tell her to be creative with her tongue. Tell her to flick it against the head and to lick your penis like a popsicle. Also, tell her to suck and lick your testicles. If you are a brave man, tell her to lick your anus while she masturbates you. You will love this.

We think that only positions refer to sex. Don't let yourself get into this one track mind. Her working your love bone can feel terrific in many positions. Have you suck your member while you are sitting. This makes for an interesting experience. Your boner will be straight up and paying attention to her. Have her sit in a chair while you stand next to her. This is a great position. I love holding on the back of my girl's head as she sucks me off. Sometimes I get carried away and I hold onto her ears. She always lets me know that her ears aren't handles.

Laying down. This is by far the best method of receiving oral sex. This is my favorite. This is a no brainer really. If you are laying down then you are going to be relaxed as she goes down on you. There is nothing more relaxing than a hot babe with her face in your crotch. I know that most men are very uneasy about their anus. I think this is because men think that if they are aroused by stimulation to the anus that they are gay. Get that out of your head! How could you be gay if a WOMAN is stimulating your anus??

There are many ways that she can stimulate your anus and more importantly your prostate gland while performing oral sex. She can use her finger of course, she can also use a sex toy. I don't suggest that you allow her to stick foreign objects in your ass. Don't try to stick the dog up there, only small things that will feel good.
Tell her to look into your eyes as she sucks you into the cosmos. This can get a great turn on. Watch her look up at you as she swallows your penis like a hungry snake.

Here are some things your woman should NOT do.


Don't use toothpaste. It may taste good on the toothbrush, but keep it far away from your penis. Not only can this burn, but it will feel gritty on your penis. Unless you like the feeling of sand on your penis, toothpaste isn't for you.

Don't allow your woman to use Ben Gay or any type of rub like this. It will burn like hell and you will think you are about to die. Keep this stuff as far away from your dick as you can. Using flavored massage oil can be just like using Ben Gay. It can burn like hell and bother you to no end. I would suggest you stay away from this.

I have never understood it, but some women think that biting a penis feels good. Never suggest that she bites your penis. If she is hungry, she might bite it off! Seriously, its not worth the risk. There is nothing wrong with telling your woman that her oral sex isn't up to par. If she is the sensitive type, make sure you tell her nicely. I would suggest that you be experimental with each other and have great communication in bed. This will help you get those better blow jobs and you will be one happy man.

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